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  1. Look what I found. One the gayest performances in K-pop  :lol:

    God, I miss them.

     

     

     

    It's even better when you watch it with the lyrics....

     

    Starts @ 5:00

     

     

    Jae's having too much fun performing that song. :lol:

     

    And he sings all the gayest parts too..

     

    JJ: Even if it's in my dreams, even if it's just for one day; I want to meet the man of my destiny

    JJ: Out of the few men I see out through the window; There's gotta be one for me (it looked like he turned to look at Yunho after he sang this part @ 6:00)

    JJ: I'll search for the man of my destiny

     

     

    I bet it was Jaejoong's song choice...I wonder how he convinced Changmin, lol.

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  2. Me too I suspected him a long time ago and he's the perfect example of what i mean when i say that i think a certain idol is gay

    for me it is not about their appearance or femininity or even the way they talk or things they do of course these things can matter sometimes but for me it's all in their eyes , Idk how to explain it exactly but gay men usually have this certain look and certain stares

    Let me give you another example jaejoong can be as manly as he wants , kiss as many girls as he wants or flirts with them and say that he loves girls and I'll still forever believe that he's gay

    It's obvious just by looking at his eyes and it was the same with miller even though we didn't have much about him back then I always thought he was gay , idk if I'm the only who notices it but there is always that little something about gay guys that gives them away no matter how hard they try to hide their sexuality a lot of people don't pay attention to these little details but I do

     

    I don't follow much of EXO, but before I even knew his name was Tao, I felt like he was gay because he reminded me of Jaejoong. I think it was because they both give off the same look in their eyes.

     

    Tao and Jae have a lot of the same stares:

     

     

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  3. Kinda old-ish, but... 

     

    I just read your analysis of Jaejoong (the whole thing  :omg: ) and I've noticed most of those things too lol

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    I think his main problem is he really seems to be unable or unwilling to lie to people. He always makes it a half lie or a disguised truth. Even his expressions and body language are very telling. I think that's probably why his initial concept was supposed to be that he didn't talk much lol

    If it was somebody less attractive and talented, they probably would've just dropped him... but this is Jaejoong, he practically oozes star quality, and SM knew he'd line their pockets pretty heavily XD

     

    That was my first thought too when I heard his concept back then was someone who was not suppose to talk or smile. At first, I've entertained the idea that it could've just been to maintain an image as an "ice prince". But during a fanmeet someone asked him about it (why he wasn't allowed to smile during those days), and he answered that he "can't tell"...like it was a secret. So now, since he's not allowed to share the reasoning, I'm more certain that it's something to do with SM fearing what he might reveal with his no-filter mouth, XD. And also "no smiling" because they wanted to discourage him from being too obvious around Yunho, lol. But even then, he can't hide his smile...

     

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    And your interpretation of Jaejoong's smirk after passing the lie detector being more of a "look of irony" does make more sense now that I rewatch the video.

     

    Also x3, I find it forever interesting that he's so loving and affectionate towards his male fans, because usually he's very hot and cold with his fans. He often refuses to say "I love you" or make hearts and stuff. He's not much into fanservice unless it suits his own interests it seems.

     

    Jaejoong and fanservice... :lol:

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    *goes to add those gifs to my analysis*

     

    I think both his parents are aware that he's possibly gay. His dad also said to not worry about getting a girlfriend, just bring grandchildren.

     

     

    offtopic: Jonghyun sings Hitomi wo Tojite at Japanese Fan Meeting in 090810    http://jjongvoice.tumblr.com/post/13779216803/hitomi-wo-tojite-i-close-my-eyes-090810-japanese

     

    I noticed that Yunho also sings that song to Jaejoong here:

     

     

    So I do have some comments about the Key analysis XDDD

    First comment is that I don't think Key would get swept up just by fanservice. He's a smart guy. If Jjong was only flirty with him on stage and stopped as soon as the cameras stopped rolling, he'd figure out that it was just for show. I'm guessing Jonghyun was probably like that off the clock too, or else Key wouldn't have become so enamored.

    Personally I do think they had something at some point, but that much is just speculation really.

    Whatever happened, it was enough to really upset Key and shake him, and I highly doubt just camera and stage flirting would elicit such a reaction.

    Also, if you look at the times where he initiated fanservice, it really didn't look like "fanservice" at all... He looked really comfortable and intimate (even touching Jonghyun's chest in one gif, clutching his torso firmly, which are uncommon for fanservice but quite common among lovers. It's usually loosely around the waist for friends. Incidentally, Jjong didn't look too pleased at the intimate contact @_@).

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    I also agree with what you said here. JongKey had something going on for Key to look that hurt during the SSK period. I agree that Jjong tried "experimenting" (probably nothing really sexual), but then decided it wasn't for him. And Key got hurt because he took it more seriously.

     

    Sometimes I feel like Key will publicly come out, but then that feeling fades. If someone were to come out first in Kpop, I'm now starting to suspect it would be Jokwon.

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  4. So I updated part 8 and 9 of my Jaejoong analysis and noticed similar incidents between him and Key. There's a couple, but these ones were most notable to me since they're not typical:

     

    Both took a lie detector test while stating they don't like girls. And they both passed the lie detector!:

     

     

    Key
    Shindong : Question: “I have someone from the opposite gender that I like†Not a short-term crush.

    Key : Sigh.. Just bring it! I don’t have one ...The one I like.. recently...(Among the idol girls) that are currently promoting..

    ...

    Shindong: Please listen to the question carefully. “What if it’s not among the idols?"...Let’s just do it! “Question: "[There is] a girl I am very fond of latelyâ€
    Key : NO! no.. no.. really none.
    Jonghyun : Actually I feel that there is none. **Deng! Key passed the lie-detector!**

     

    Jaejoong

    Start @ 7:05

    Jae was asked if he likes Japaneses women, and he had to lie so the lie detector would go off (noticed he asked if he should reply "no"). So he answered "No", but the lie detector didn't go off.

     


    (Jae's proud walk after passing the lie detector is too funny. :lol: Like, um...it didn't matter that he just disappointed all the Japanese women in the audience!?!)

     

     

     

    When asked to draw their ideal type, they both drew generic figures (compared to their members who all drew more feminine looking people with long hair):

     

     

    Key

    SHINee's Dream Girl:

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    Jaejoong

    TVXQ's Ideal Type:

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    (LOL, Jaejoong's arrow in his "Ideal Type" drawing points towards Yunho. I think he did that intentionally. :lol: )

     

     

     

    Both have named woman who are 20+ years older than them as their Ideal Type:

     

     

     

    Both have covered songs predominately by females signing about a guy (sometimes even looking emotional over it, as if they relate to the song):

     

     

    Key

    • Getting emotional over a song about heartbreak with a guy:
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    • Other female songs about guys:
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    • A song from a gay man:

    Jaejoong

     

     

     

    Both got their Q&A obviously edited out during interviews with their entire group:

     

     

    Key

    Each member of SHINee had to go down the line asking each other tough questions (Minho wasn't present for this interview), but Key's Q&A was the only one edited out:
    (Also, if they asked a weak question, an embarrassing video of them was shown. If they refuse to answer their tough question when it's their turn, an embarrassing video of them was shown too.)

    Q&A begins @ 2:40

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tQi8FQQXs9Y
    2:40 Taemin is the first to ask. He asks Jjong where e goes out late at night putting colonge on.
    4:01 after jjong answer his Q, he gets to asks Onew a Q. He asks Onew if there was a girl he likes, if he can win a fight with the members over her.
    4:20 Key abruptly got nervous when it was about to be his turn
    4:40 something was edited out here. after Onew answered his question, he was suppose to ask Key a tough question. but it jumps to Key asking a question to taemin.
    7:10 end of segmant, and Onew's question along with Key's answer was never shown

     

    Jaejoong

    Each member of TVXQ got a question to answer, but Jaejoong's questions was the only one edited out:

    Q&A begins @ 4:03

     

    4:03 The MC begins by saying there are 5 questions and each one of them can only answer one question. Once they answer, they step to the side.

    4:28 1st Question: Changmin answers that one

    5:22 After he answers, Changmin steps to the side

    5:42 2nd Question: Yunho answer that one (about his first kiss)

    6:36 - 9:47 They act out Yunho's 1st kiss (notice how the studio is very lively and playful)

    9:51 Something was edited out here. The studio is now very calm and seated. In the front, there is only Yoochun and Junsu (Jae is suddenly standing on the side with Yunho/Changmin, like he already answered his question)

    9:55 The MC says there are 2 questions left (there was suppose to be 5), and only 2 ppl left.

     

     

    0:26 Yoochun's Question

    1:18 Junsu's Question

    3:24 End of the segment and Jae's Question was never shown

     

     

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    scribbled out friend's faces for privacy reasons

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    at some formal kind of event

     

    selfie from a few months ago when i got my new phone with a bunch of filters

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    you look like L from infinite  :ahmagah:

     

    That was my exact thoughts. He kinda does resemble L.

  6. I always tho that Taeyeon is at least bi. But sometimes it's on off.

     

    There're 9girls after all. So at least one or more of those girls is attracted to one another.

     

    I really hope and tho that Yuri is lesbian. And somehow the girls knew it. And they're okay with it.

     

     

    Ex : on Hello baby when they're playing, Sooyoung said to Yuri "You're the daddy, you like that right?"

    Yuri is like a sexy butch everytime I saw her airport outfit (tho most of the time it's hideous when she choose to use dress) sorry Yul I still love u tho :chu:

     

    Sometimes I imagine that Yuri is a lesbian and the girls know it and are ok with it too, lol.

     

    I have another example:

     

    H: -laughing- "We almost kissed~"

    -laughlaughlaugh-

    Y: "She's weird, she's really weird!"

    H: "You like this kind of stuff though."

    Y: "Shh."

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  7. Hihi. Anyone want to do an analysis on Ryeowook?

    he's my ultimate bias and sometimes, I DON'T KNOW, I try shipping him with girls but sometimes it's so hard I can't even

    I mean, not that it matters, but I'm bored and need something to read and investigate kkk

     

     

    He always talks about how he wants to get a girlfriend in interviews

    And then this happened.. and I'm like wut (it was actually his dictionary LOLOLOL)

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GWeRsFm3pmM

    But then watching him do things for performances... I'm like DOES HE FEEL SOMETHING

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xfbb1tVNOAI

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jL4aepE7GFo

    EVEN SO, THINGS LIKE THIS HAPPEN, AND I'M LIKE DID YOU FEEL SOMETHING THEN, TOO?!!?

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Su6uZvXcJ3s

     

     

     

    Anyways... yeah.. I always find myself lurking in this thread because it's so interesting ;-;

    I ship a lot of EXO & SHINee members together lol

     

    lol, that video where he said he had a girlfriend shocked me at first. I was like, wtf, I always thought he was gay. :omg:   ...but then I saw your comment about his g/f actually being his dictionary. :unimpressed:  lol, ok, that makes more sense now. And Jaejoong often talks about wanting a g/f too, and he's still sooo gaaayyy. So I don't think that means anything.

     

    In those other videos you posted, Ryeowook seems very lackluster and uninterested in the females he's around. Like in this video below, the girl gets up to spread her legs on top of him @ 2:30 and it's like he doesn't feel anything, lol. He casually touches her legs, then gets back to focusing on his own performance:

     

     

     

    I remember an interview where his members mentioned he was more interested in work than dating. Also, those other videos of him kissing females you posted, it looks more like siblings kissing each other.

  8. You're very observant, so anything would be great  :)

     

    But Hecchul commented the photo: "The person behind me".

    http://sup3rjunior.com/2012/08/03/120803-heechul-weibo-update-the-person-behind-me/

    He looks like Jae here, definitely.

     

    I see the similarities between gay guys too. Jae and Key have the same expressions sometimes and the same piercing stares. 

     

    There's more Jonghyun/Jaejoong interaction that JaeKey. I think Jong likes pretty people  :)  And I think he's bisexual.

     

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    They share similarities too  :hurr:

     

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    Ah, maybe it is Heechul in that photo, lol. I got confused with that interview where Jae said it was him (but maybe he was talking about the photo of him in the car). Heechul does look like Jaejoong at times:

     

     

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    And more JaeChul, just because I like this pair...

     

     

    They almost ended up in the same group, I wonder how that would've been like.

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    Maybe alot of drama.... :lol:

     

    Heechul talking about the hamburger incident with Jae:

     

     

    Jaejoong giving his side of the story:

    Jaejoong: Although we wanted to eat the expensive cup noodles that cost $2

    (Heechul: But we had no money) Because we had no money…  (we could have) only the 85 cents one.

    ...

    Heechul: Seriously, the cup noodles that we bought with the little money we worked so hard to earn, really tasted so delicious. It wouldn’t have tasted so nice if we had just bought it easily.

    Jaejoong: And so in those difficult times, on top of the dining table, that hamburger that was so nicely wrapped up, how much I really wanted to eat it..

    Heechul: That’s why, how you felt at that time, I finally understand now. But you should think as well. That time, not even being able to afford a bigger sized cup noodle because of the lack of money and could only eat a tiny sized one. To save up bit by bit to buy that hamburger, but go home and find that somebody had eaten it… Think about how that feels

    Jaejoong: Ah.. so it was like that..

    Heechul: Now that you think about it~

    Jaejoong: I was really apologetic..

    Heechul: No, let’s both apologize once.

    Jaejoong: Hyung, I’m really sorry!

    Heechul: I really didn’t know at that time, Hero Jaejoong’s story..

    Yunho: Ah, finally after so many years, all this unpleasantness came to an end.

    Heechul: After 3 years..

     

    I think Heechul and Jae still hang out. Heechul mentioned him last month (and called him "Jaejoongie"):

    Fan: What are you going to do on your birthday (July 10, 2013)?

    Heenim: I originally planned to quietly celebrate it with the members, Gunhee, FT Island friends, Jang Gunsukkie, Sam D, Mithra, Natsun, Jongki, Jaejoongie and the others but seeing as there’s just two months left for me, i’m thinking of not doing it. Just quietly celebrating. Since these days I have been careful so nothing bad has happened. What if something happens and my officers would come find me, our head of office (in Sungdong District) would have a mental breakdown. So I was just thinking of maybe staying in the house and have a glass (of something). Just thank my parents for giving birth to me on my birthday.

     

     

     

    And I'm sad there probably won't be any more interactions between Jae and Shinee as there was in '08. Jae and Jjong look really cute together.  :ahmagah:

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  9. Friendship with Key has a good influence on him.

     

    Remember I was talking about gays sticking together?

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    https://twitter.com/hwangkwanghee

     

    One more thing. Check this out http://gaysubtextinkpop.tumblr.com/post/56799910355

    Someone should write an essay on Heechul.

    @kremlindust, you're so good at it, where are you?  :meow:

     

    I'm still here. :meow: If I have time to write another essay, maybe I'll write one on him. But that's already a decent list they have for Heechul being gay/bi though. :lol: And I'm seeing similarities with Jae while reading them too.

     

    These quotes from Heechul:

     

    “I’m not interested in girls"

     

    "I love to hang out with guys, to the extent that there’s a rumor saying Kim Heechul has the ‘gay feel’ aura. Because I’d always been hanging out with guys, when I hang out with girls I feel annoyed."

     

    "Because I’ve never met a girl I like, I’m always with guys."

     

     

     

    Reminds me of what Jaejoong said here:

     

     

    "Ah, so. In the end, everyone just gathers looks at the girl and it happens that the girl becomes the center of everything. I think I'm more of the guy that likes making noise and talking among boys. So whenever I go drinking, I don't usually call girls up. Is it because I don't have interest in girls? In my phonebook, there's female celebrities and excluding the female staff, I only have three female celebrities' number...it's been a million years since I haven't contacted even those three."

     

    "What if people become to think I'm gay? Haha."

     

     

     

    But with Jae, it's more like he's concerned about what others will think of him being gay. And he's probably bringing it up test the waters. So you see more of a questioning from him: "What if people think I'm gay?" "Is it because I don't have interest in girls?" "Is it okay to hang out with all guys like this?"

     

    That insecurity and self-consciousness makes it more believable for me that Jae's gay. Like, on the one hand, he's comfortable being gay and not giving a shit what others think because he's just being himself...but on the other hand, he's still insecure about it and curious if people will truly accept him if he actually does come out as gay.

     

    Then with Heechul, instead of questioning himself about being gay, it's more of a bold statement: "I love to hang out with guys to the extent that people think I'm gay"  “I’m not interested in girls"  "when I hang out with girls I feel annoyed." And Heechul's very confident and wants people to know he really enjoys kissing men, while Jae is more bashful while talking about the men he's kissed.

     

    Even though I talk about Jae, Key and Jokwon not giving a shit about hiding their gayness, there's still that secretiveness and fear they all have regarding potential homophobic backlash if they're too open about being gay. I don't sense that same fear with Heechul. So it's difficult to tell if Heechul's just messing with people (since he knows he's not really gay and will not be affected by whatever backlash comes from actually being gay) or if he's serious (and laughing at the fact that he's free to be gay because he's shielded from the backlash since no one will take it seriously :lol:).

     

    I should probably do an analysis on similarities and differences between the speculated gays of Kpop (Key, Jaejoong, Jokwon, Heechul, etc.) :lol: ..because I've noticed many similarities.

     

     

    Also, about gays sticking together, some old pics of Jae with Heechul:

     

    Jae and Heechul

     

     

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    And Heechul uploaded this photo of Jae to his weibo. I'm not sure who's behind Jae though (and is that person wearing a thong? O.O)

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    Jae talking about hanging out with Heechul often:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3vqATWWm6Ds

    Jae confirmed it was him in the photo (but I think the interviewer asked him about the motorbike pic, but he answered about the car pic?)

     

     

     

    And throwing in photos of Jae with Key:

     

     

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  10. Do you know when did ken Hirai officially come out as a homosexual man ?

     

    I don't think he made an official "announcement". But he seems already "out" and most people seem to have accepted he's gay. He's been photographed in public with his supposed boyfriend ([1] [2]), accidentally referred to a "boyfriend" in an interview ([1] [2] [3]), rumors of him getting cozy at an intimate bar with another man, being spotted in public places holding hands with another man and spending the night at his house, rumors of him planning a gay marriage in California, the recent account about a private wedding ceremony he had with his boyfriend, and so on...

     

    I have a feeling Jae's going to do something similar. Never officially coming out, but just continuing to do what he has always been doing (flirting with boys, admitting to kissing men, singing songs about love towards males, hanging out with only men at gay bars, etc). Eventually when he's in his 40s he'll move to Japan and have a private gay wedding ceremony with his boyfriend like Ken Hirai. Most people will come to accept that he's gay (if they already haven't), but there will be the few in denial who still claim he's straight.

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  11. so i see some people saying heechul is probs straight even though he kissed some members and actually looked into it..but just wondering if taemin did it also would you still say he's straight too? im confused lol >_<

    and wondering why people think heechul's straight? any examples/instances?  

     

    I use to find Heechul's interest in Sohee cute back then. :meow: I seriously believe he liked her since he would always get flustered around her, or just any mention of her. And is was always a huge contrast to his usually confident self. So it makes me believe he's at least bi. He's someone who appears to enjoy being an entertainer, trolling people, and seeing their reactions. To be so bold with all that kissing in a homophobic environment and actually be gay is very brave. So I see it more as him just messing with people.

     

    There is this American band, My Chemical Romance, who also does something similar. Two of the members, Gerard and Frank, have kissed eachother, but they did it as an anti-homophobic statement (I think one of them is married to a women). But they do it because they are supporters of LGBTQ and all for equality, so it was like a "fuck you" to the homophobic people watching them. I can imagine Heechul doing it for similar reasons. I mean, being around his SuJu members, I'm certain at least one of them has to be gay. And I think Heechul's aware and wants to be supportive (he mentioned supporting gay marriage in that radio interview). And maybe his way of spreading acceptance and equality is by being bold and in people's face about it.

     

    And if Taemin acted like Heechul with that much confidence in his fanservice, I would think he's gay. Taemin always confuses me, and isn't as confident. So doing what Heechul does would really be out of his character. I would think.."wow, Taemin finally found the confidence to be who he is...and it's gay"

     

     

    Hahaha i was going to comment about the MC's and how they automatically see Jaejoong's sexual preference in many instances like the male Radio MC in Yokohama that said he wanted to "eat " Jae or how Boom di fanservice with him in his Seoul concert and that Thai MC who pretty much asked him to "ride" him ehm while jae was completely oblivious here : http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m9cigsIDYC1qc2qrao2_250.gif      http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m9cigsIDYC1qc2qrao3_250.gif    http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m9cigsIDYC1qc2qrao4_250.gif

     

    There's something about all the MCs in Thailand, lol. Always flirting with JJ.

     

    There's the one you posted, who asked if Jae wanted to "ride" him:

     

     

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    And then there's a lot more flirting with the Thai MC who sniffed his hands after JJ shook it:

     

     

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    and also @ 14:48 this Thai MC says "don't look into his eyes...if you do that, you'll be dead. If it's not for my parents, I'd definitely change my gender now."

     

     

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DiPccVmJZkU

    (and @ 17:07 when the MC asked if he wanted a Thai g/f he said "but if I had a thai g/f you guys wouldn't like it, right?" and then the mc says, right now you have 5000 g/f, and Jae replied "that will make you get older quickly"  He's never excited when talking about having a girlfriend, is he? :lol:)

     

     

     

     

    If anyone has an opinion in J-pop or C-pop, do throw it in. This is the only viable place, such threads would be dead.

     

    I think someone tried to start a thread for J-pop, but it died. But yeah if anyone has speculations on non-Kpop, I'm interested in hearing them too. There's really no other place for active discussions on them.

     

    I'm not good with speculations (esp. in jrock because I want to say all of them are gay, lol), so I'll just list people who I think are already out/confirmed(?):

     

    Japanese:

    Ken Hirai - Gay (also, http://choscandalo.us/post/9876965065/gaynoujin2)

    Gackt - Bi-curious

    Takeru (SuG) - Bi

    Ataru Nakamura -Trans

    Kaya (Schwarz Stein) - Gay

     

    Chinese/Taiwanese:

    Joanna Wang - Bi

     

    Thai:

    Pongsak "Aof" Rattanaphong - Gay

    "Zee" Matanawee Keenan - Lesbian

    Ben Chalatit - Gay

     

    Philippines:

    Charice - Lesbian

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  12. Meh. Just for you, I put it back on.

     

    I was expecting you to look like your avatar too, lol..and maybe it's the reason why I thought you'd be tan.

     

    Oh, and icu quoting your pic so no one can quote it later. Good idea. I will steal that idea for when I want to post something I will later delete. :ninja:

     

    I've always been too awkward to try a relationship, so at least I haven't had to deal with that. But I'm sure it sucks, on both sides. :/

     

    One time I decided to confess to this one guy (eventually I got over the urge to do that) and he was completely confused when I was completely fine with him not wanting a relationship. He was all apologetic, but it was really okay. I'm well aware that most everyone is sexual, so even if I'd love an asexual SO I'm okay with just being friends with the others.

    I also have the problem of not being able to pick up social cues, so there have been occasions when I've been entirely surprised to find that someone was trying to flirt with me. :._.: Or even worse, when I find out that I was apparently flirting with someone else. lol

    But that just may be my social anxiety talking. XD

     

    I actually don't mind not being in a relationship either, and just being friends with people. But I'm near that age where people are talking about marriage and stuff. And I'm often asked when I'll get married and if I'm seeing anyone (so I kinda relate to what Jaejoong's going through here. Alot of his responses really resembles the responses I've given).

     

    Looking back, I was pretty clueless to who's interested in me all throughout HS and prior as well. I guess it's because I never had dating/sex on my mind, so I always thought people were just being nice to me. And I would unintentionally flirt with them. And I always thought we were just being really friendly, but then they seemed disappointed about something. And now I realize what was going on...I have no social skills.  :lol: 

  13. The only even semi-sexual situation I was ever in was thoroughly underwhelming, and it's what initially led me to thinking I was gay. And while I've had crushes before it's always the situation of "Well, I do like you, but I just don't want to do anything about it. Wanna play Skyrim?" XD

    The lack of sexual experience = asexual argument is just more funny to me than anything. Especially with the number of people who only discovered they were asexual later in life, even after having kids.

     

    It's just hard for me to imagine Kevin with...anyone. Statistically speaking he's probably sexual and in that case he definitely gives off some gay vibes, but in some cases you just can't know. And a great number of asexual people don't even know that it exists and end up living sexual lives. So it's harder to have an a-dar than a gaydar XD

     

    a-dar is definitely more difficult than gaydar, lol. I wished it was easier so it could prevent me from getting into awkward relationships with sexuals, which usually ends up in disappointment. :._.:

     

    And I'm the same with having crushes, but just wanting to stare at them and do nothing more. xD  Or maybe like you said, just invite them to play video games with you. lol. I've actually done that with a guy I like (who seemed to like me too). It was actually one of my first dating experiences. He seemed shy, so I was the one who began inviting him to innocent dates (like playing video games with me :lol: ). But eventually, it got awkward when he wanted things to get more sexual....and he ended up thinking he'd been friend-zoned or something. :unsure:

  14. personally, i rlly do think seohyun is lesbian, she reminds me of me when i was younger and wasnt aware i was a lesbian.  

     

    Technically she could be both asexual and lesbian. Maybe she prefers romantic relationships rather than sexual ones, and relationships that are not with males... ;)

     

     

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    Hi :D I'm hoping to be here more, and not just creeping on the conversations...

     

    I've talked to a couple other asexual people, but I think it was actually only two. We're few and far between and sometimes I even forget that other asexuals exist XD

    I actually came out as bi first, because I thought that if I didn't have a particular interest in the opposite sex I could like the same one instead. After a while I somehow decided that I was actually all the way gay, because I do have an aesthetic attraction to (mostly) guys, but it took me a long time to figure out that no, I didn't have interest in sex with anybody. So not the most fantastic story of all time.

    What about you?

     

    Sometimes I get a...I don't know, lack of vibes from Kevin? If that's what you get when they're asexual. I see where you're coming from. He's all over the rest of the group but whenever it seems like someone is showing actual serious interest in him he shuts off. But that could just be me projecting...

     

    My story's not that interesting either, and kinda similar to yours. I'm a girl, and didn't have interest in guys growing up. But I was always drawn towards physically feminine people, so I thought I was a lesbian at first. Then I realized I didn't have much interest in girls either, so that left me confused. And it took me a while to figure out that it was just the sex part that I didn't have interest in.

    Initially, I thought I just didn't have enough sexual experiences (because I often see sexuals saying this as reasons for why asexuals don't really exists) ... but then a straight person really doesn't need to have sex multiple times with the same gender until they decide they're not gay/lesbian, right? lol.  So...yeah.

     

    And I suspect Kevin mainly because every time he's asked about ideal types or what he'd do on a date, it's always non-sexual. Like he'd answer that if he had a g/f he'd sing her a song, bake her a cake, spend time with her, cook dinner for her, etc. It's always something very innocent and platonic. I don't get vibes from him either way as well, but I can't imagine him with a girl, so I see him as gay in that regards.

  15. lmao

     

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    Gay or too sexually confident to let that happen to him /the latter imo/ ....but either way i love it

     

    :lol: I love Heechul. He doesn't strike me as gay either, but maybe bi-curious.

     

    It seemed that dancer kind of pulled him wrong or did sth i could see like he said sth like "ouch " lol i think she might have scratched or sth it wasn't a sexual face you can clearly see it in the second gif it was like "in pain " face lol He practiced with those dancers and it wasn't a sexual outburst, he was just acting along  and you can see  that clearly in the rest of the performance and him around Jihyo,he's more visibly "gay" if i may say as seen  in the gifs i posted down  ; he acted like a cute little brother around her and even in the making of Jackal, you can clearly notice from the way he acted around her.If Jae had any interest in women, he would be dating by now especially that he's a sexual person but yet he prefers to hang around his male friends. 

     

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    You're right, it does look like he's saying "ouch". Well, whatever is going on, I know it was a hopeless search for me finding any images where it remotely appeared like he was interested in females. And he is around a lot of beautiful woman on set...so the rarity of such things is certainly suspect. But you can find many instances with males. Even flirting with them, lol...

     

     

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    (also, check out the 3rd/4th gif above.

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  16. Hold on, I'll get a pen and paper.

     

    I'm Chris. :D

    Yeah, it took me a freaking long time to figure out stuff so I came out as about four hundred different things in high school. I swear after a while my parents were probably just like "Okay, what are you this week?" lol

    But yeah, I'm actually asexual and biromantic. Except I lean a lot toward teh boyz. :megusta: *ahem*

    Actually, the reason why I mostly just lurked here was because everyone seemed mostly LGB and I wasn't sure if you'd let me stay XD

     

    Hello there! I'm asexual too. :) And I mostly lurk here as well for the same reason as you, lol. So I hope you post here more. I've surprisingly stumbled into quite a few asexuals on these types of forums, but they just never talk about it. So I never know how many are out there. How did you come to the conclusion that you're asexual, if you don't mind me asking?

     

    And relating to Kpop, I personally think Seohyun and Kevin Woo are both asexuals (but Kevin leans towards males).

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  17. I think you did a pretty good job providing logic evidence that Jaejoong is gay. I personally believe that he's completely gay since he doesn't show the least interest in females and when he talks about them , it is in the circumstance he's forced to talk about marriage or having a girlfriend since the media always obsesses over inquiring about  the whole marriage thing . The topic is pretty much sensitive because jaejoong has a wide fanbase that would go nutcase if you said that "oppar is gay"  despite the fact that it shows clearly in everything he basically does. I just wanted to point out a couple of things ..

     

    Most of Jae's topless selcas bear a great seal of gay sexual innuendos in the way he poses  that if you are an international fan you'd understand  right away that he's hinting at his sexuality whereas for normal Asian fans who don't have enough background on the gay community ,they would think his selcas are just sexy.

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    Hello and welcome to the forum.  :)  I agree that Jae is more likely gay than bi. But in some instances, he can look really sexual around girls:

     

     

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    He might just be a sexual person in general though...but yeah, his preference does seem to be males rather than females. Whenever he talks about getting a girlfriend or his past experiences with females, he rarely seems interested or excited. But when talking about males, there's a huge and visible difference.

     

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    Jaejoong's femininity does play a role in why we think he's gay since it's a fact that the majority of gay people are feminine and it's not a stereotype even though there are of course gay people who are not feminine .Also, his femininity supported by the things you mentioned with the fact that he loved a guy "yes i think it's obvious that he loved / loves Yunho"  proves that this femininity is the gay femininity and not the stereotype.  

     

    Also, notice that he said his idea type is "Byonce" and it's ironic that she is the most famous idol for gay people along with GaGa and Avril is obviously a Tom-Boy .. He clearly said he never wrote a song for a woman, even if he meant specif women, then who's that specific person he's been crying over in his songs that abandoned him but still he is in love with him "i'm saving all my love for you", " You're my only and last love" , " you've already become my soul "--  clearly not a woman....Bear in mind that he co wrote Kiss B with LeeU who's also suspected to be gay . Also, jaejoong covered a song called Keshou "make up" in his last Yokohama concert, and the song has an extremely feminine lyrics that it can't be possibly covered by a male ,still jae covered it and even cried ..

     

    When he talks about Beyonce, he usually mentions liking her music and singing, and that she's someone he'd want to collaborate with. He seems in love with her musically. So maybe it's not like an "Ideal Type" for a girlfriend, but there's that feeling of being really in love with someone's art, but not interested in that person sexually.

     

    And I can't argue that people do notice Jae's femininity first...and that's what leads people to think he's gay:

     

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    And, as you said, it's his femininity combined with all the other factors that makes it really convincing that he is gay. So I agree, femininity can serve as an indication, and alot of the times, you will find further support for it. But the femininity =/= gay argument that many fangirls use to defend their idols really annoys me, so I didn't want to bother bringing it up, lol.

     

    Femininity and yunjae are the two things most people get defensive about and argue that "it doesn't mean Jaejoong's gay!" So I tried not to discuss much of either. But I couldn't leave YunJae out completely since that's a big part of him. So I also discussed other guys he seemed interested in besides Yunho..like Yihan (even though I don't think there was anything going on between them). But I think discussing him made some YunJae shippers upset, lol. Oh well...I can't please everyone.

     

    Anyways, I noticed my essay on Jaejoong was being linked and talked about on twitter and FB. I'm glad you and others found it interesting. But I guess not everyone liked reading it...I think someone even went to my profile to rate me 1 stars because of it, lol. (It's reminding me of what happened with my Key essay -_-). But that's to be expected.

     

     

     

    BTW, for people who haven't checked back, I edited and updated a few things to my Jaejoong analysis yesterday so it flows better: http://onehallyu.com/index.php?/topic/64-which-male-idols-do-you-think-are-gay/page-81&do=findComment&comment=687096

     

     

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  18. is there a better quality of this so i can read it? it's too blurry

     

     

    *edit: i couldn't find more proof of this being an accurate translation of any of the interviews from this magazine. still can barely read this scan, so i decided just to check out the order of names to find where the question was.

     

    and actually, none of these questions have sunggyu followed by woohyun, L, sungyeol, dongwoo, and sunjong in that order. most have only 2 or 3 members answering, and even in the above section (which isn't the twitter Q&A) there is no gyu->hyun->myung->yeol->dong->jong. even the barely visible column on the right has the wrong members replying.

     

    it's either a fake translation or it's from a different part of the magazine that isn't scanned or a different magazine.

     

     

     

     

    maybe it's real, but this scan is unfortunately the only too-shitty-to-read image of the whole set, and none of the other pages have group-oriented questions. i did some searching around in japanese, even using bits of what i could make out from the scan, but it was just impossible; japanese fans are less reliable in that sense (they make other fans buy the goods in question to experience it rather than scanning/fancamming/etc). 

     

    i couldn't find any higher quality scans or japanese transcripts to prove that this is real, and most other posts i found about this magazine issue on fansites didn't even have this part in there.

     

     

    I can't find any better scans either.

    But the translations came from here: http://babonamu.tumblr.com/post/54233544284/haruhana-vol-18-twitter-q-a

    And I got the scans from here: http://infinitechinggyu.wordpress.com/2013/05/22/picmag-130522-infinite-haruhana-magazine-vol-18/

     

    Both are said to be from haruhana vol. 18, and the translation was posted a week after the magazine was available, so I assume the translation came from that magazine. Maybe the Q&A part they translated is one of the ones cut off on the sides? Too bad the Twitter Q&A pages are the only scans where we can't see the entire page...

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