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why do people write those kind of age regressions for people/characters in general, I feel like it's specifically for pedos to get their jollies or something (or, it's written by misguided teen girls who think it'd be super sexy to be seduced by a much older adult). because I can't see any literary reason for making a character into a young teen while keeping the other partner an adult on a completely different note, why do tv parents always cook their teenage children a full meal and then go to their room to announce that it's ready like they're the butler or something? My mom almost always made me at least set the table/do small tasks for meals, and if she didn't, she'd just yell at me to come to the table until I complied. Do other children not have chores.

Am I the only person who likes the Winter Olympics? I keep seeing people say 'winter Olympics is boring' or 'it's not the real olympics'. But there are so many interesting winter sports... It hasn't been in my country since 2002, but if it is again I'd probably consider going...

sometimes I wonder if there are idols that are actually giant assholes and bullied their way to the top. like it seems impossible that they're all nice people

Saw a guy on the bus watching gfriend mvs but was too chicken to talk to him because he had earbuds in and it's taboo to bother people on the bus. So if you're on here, bus dude, you're cool and I hope I meet other people in NM that like kpop:)

I miss having other humans to hang out with. Why do I keep moving to new places where I know no one as an introvert who sucks at making friends, I'm fucking stupid

i have nothing to contribute to this thread but I wanna state that BTS look hot af in blue jeans & that is why a lot of their DNA stages gave me life.

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im reading this bts fic and the writing is pretty good and engaging so I want to give it a chance but the writer keeps getting things terribly wrong about korean culture (im talking having koreans celebrate traditional american-style xmas when THEY MOST CERTAINLY DO NOT)...and then I found out the author is only a teenager...but still... y u no know these things

yo has there been speculation on when members would do military service yet? I read some comment on yt in which some person said Jin was going soon and I was like... But he's barely 25... I know plenty regular Koreans go at 19-20, but I though most idols deferred until they're pushing 30...

considering upgrading after 5 years. I mostly play triple a fps + indie games (i.e. I wanna play fallout 4 finally! my current pc can't handle anything recent other than some indie games). Should I shell out $200 more for 32 gb of ram vs 16 gb?

sometimes when I see cute siblings together I wish I had a sister (instead of being an only child) but if I did it'd probably just be my luck that we'd not be close and she'd hate me lol

when expat youtuber decides to make positive videos about China being like, 'China is so modern and safe and clean!!'...like I'm glad you have positive things to say because too goddamn many people bash China and act like the entire country is a shithole, but also you live in one of the nicest tier one cities... travel a couple hundred miles and you'll find some little village without running water or a bunch of smog-releasing factories. It's like a foreign person coming to San Francisco and being like, 'Man, America is so progressive!'. Just learn to talk about both sides, y'know. Especially with big, diverse countries. Otherwise you either come off as a shill for that country's tourist industry, or a giant racist.

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You know what's real awkward? When you have friends that do creative work and it's bad but you have to pretend to like it. Not all of it sucks, but I have had to suffer through a metric ton of bad fanfiction, bad art, bad songs, and horrific singing over the years in the name of friendship. A small problem to have, but nevertheless frustrating

if an online personality is attractive enough, they get a pass for being a weeb or a koreaboo while if you're overweight, anything other than a white person or a gyopo, ugly, or achieved your looks through plastic surgery, you get ragged on for any little transgression. Like Rachel of Rachel and Jun has repeatedly said cringey weeb shit like, 'I wanted to date Jun because I thought he looked like an anime character', but people love her because she is tiny and white

Why do people wear those super tight corset tops with the tiny cups that mash their boobs down and cut into the top of the breast tissue? They look so bad and uncomfortable. I'd like to file under 'fashion things that shouldn't exist'

When I was a kid I never thought I would like traveling as much as I do now, I get serious wanderlust if I'm in a place too long. I can't wait to go to Hong Kong for the first time next week!

When kboos study abroad or teach in Korea and end up in...the countryside it's the funniest thing because they go to Korea thinking they're gonna go to hip clubs and meet idols left and right but they end up in some little town where the average age of residents is like 50 and there's nothing to do I wouldn't mind so much living in the countryside so much,I know it's not as accepting or happening as Seoul and few people speak English but rent is way cheaper and I like a slower pace. But these guys should do their research...

does WG have akgae fans? I feel like in korea they do, 'cause of Sunmi and Sohee's popularity as visuals, but with international fans I feel like wonderfuls are dedicated to all the girls and whatever they end up pursuing in their career <3

I want to catch up on the show but I can't find a single streaming site that isn't chock full of ads that causes the file to glitch.

@ people who've done modeling/ some kind of entertainment career who pull the 'teehee, I'm so ugly and awkward' shtick: I am well aware that anyone can have insecurities. but someone was willing to pay you money to pose and photograph your face. you don't even compare to the majority of us that can't even get other people to give us the time of day. you've been genetically blessed so just maybe acknowledge that every once in a while. it doesn't mean you're not allowed to have problems, it just means you realize that you have opportunities others didn't

Kpop pet peeves: 'this album sounds too western!!'. you listen to a genre that 80% of the time devotes itself to rehashing western music trends years or sometimes decades after they were in vogue, mate. Like I'm not saying kpop never does anything fresh, but you picked the wrong genre to stan if you want to quibble about originality Other peeves: 'this sounds like an SM song!! 😭😭😭' and? SME makes very high production quality stuff and facilitates a lot of great collaborations, anyone would respect them for being a leader in the field. Don't act like your faves wouldn't jump at the chance to get to work with them.

why are there so many people who dont realize even when they're called out in a sensible way that they're being nasty to others like im pretty self aware and I definitely feel guilt for my (many) shortcomings and try to apologize if I can but there seems to be so many people that are so self absorbed they cant realize they fucked up