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I made a post here of all the BTS members. It bears repeating that I'm not saying every single one of those points proves that Taehyung is gay, this is literally just what has been said about him in this thread. I'm aware some of these points are irrelevant, but hey if that's what convinces you that Taehyung is gay then more power to you lol

 

I also haven't updated the post in a while, so for Taehyung we can add:

• Him being all flirty with Jimin at year-end award shows
• Looked at a LGBT Pride flag at a concert and smiled
• Looked visibly annoyed talking about this, and made the decision not to release the song (presumably because he never wanted it to be heterosexual in the first place)
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Damn. What's the word for being angry and sad at the same time? Either it had been and extremely long day or he was seriously... smad.

 

And while it is beautiful seeing Tae inspired, I hope he stays at the level of working out with steel in the sun, not, like, inciting a coup and getting decapitated in a government building. >_>

Everyone on twitter is talking about how one of the four couples is an lgbt relationship and that dispatch is preparing to release them all... but you guys dont think they actually will do you? It's awful enough for a relationship to revealed and your privacy to be invaded but being outed is on a whole other level. I'm a bit worried - no one deserves that..

 

they previously said that they would not be outing anyone under any circumstances, has that changed?

 

Nah, they'll just sell the secret back to the agency as usual. I don't even think a gay secret is that expensive, since they can't do much with it -- outing someone would seriously backfire.

 

 

Edit: If the dispatch contacting management is true, then dispatch is horrible, what they're doing is literally blackmailing companies for money at the expense of someone's livelihood. I wonder if it's legal to do that in Korea. I'm hoping for the day that dating isn't considered a career ending scandal in Korea. I just can't wrap my head around how dating is such a taboo, regardless if fans get butthurt and delusional about it. It's annoying honestly.

 

Yeah, it's morally suspect, but it seems to be a fair game in Korea -- you dig out the secret, it's yours. Contacting the agency is actually an act of courtesy.

What do you think will happen if ALL LGBT idols come out of the closet together?

 

Gaypocalypse. Korea would sink under the sea with an explosion of glitter and rainbows.

You know, I understand that most of the people blowing this video up are just doing so because "skinship" and shipping, but am I the only one whose kinda worried for them? I get that most Koreans and certainly kmedia will use any and every excuse to justify why something isn't gay, but this is......pretty explicit. I just really hope, for their sake, that this stays contained on Twitter and other SNS sites. Kpop fans are pretty oblivious and think pretty much everything is just fanservice and dont think anything serious of this, but I don't think the general public has that same attitude. If it blows up even bigger I feel like we may be about to witness the first time a company has to actively acknowledge something like this to do damage control. 

 

I'm honestly not at all afraid. If I've learned anything in those, what, 7 years I've been at this, it's that there is nothing to see here for Koreans. They were in public, acknowledged they were in public, and what they did was innocent enough... or at least explainable. They'd have to get filmed 69'ing each other's dick, and the official story would still be they slipped and accidentally got interlocked.

I know this moment has been posted already, but here it is in gif form:

 

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I'm not posting this for shipping reasons *at all*, but like, how many straight guys would turn around like that to dance with their also straight bro? 

 

 

 

I am really struggling at the moment. A trans actress, Alexis Arquette (when claiming Will and Jada were gay) said, "Outing is healthy. You are either with or against us. You decide. Today." I don't know or care about the Will/Jada thing, but I know I just get more and more desperate as the days go by, the more comments I hear from real human beings in the world that are so severely uneducated about sexuality/gender and absolutely convinced that no one they concern themselves with could be lgbt. No, I don't think outing someone against their will is a good thing, but pride is the only way forward. If women were able to hide being women, would feminism be years behind where it is now? If people of colour could turn their skin white in the company of white people, what would the state of their movement be? The battle not being fought because you can get away with looking like your opponents isn't a good thing.

 

Who else is in a better position to take pride in their identity than a talented billionaire celebrity? "It would ruin their career" no it wouldn't. You don't go from being international billionaires to nothing over being gay. They could incorporate this development into their art in a way that's powerful and beautiful. They could be beacons of hope for the lgbt people who can't come out because they are in actual legitimate danger. They could make history. Only everything keeps trucking along, the same as always.

 

I know it's scary, I know you risk having even your own family members unable to look at you the same way ever again. And, in their case, the empire might crumble just a little round the edges when the worst fangirls' faux conditional love turns to hate. But it's scary for everyone. The privilege and opportunity of their situation affords them something so rare and so important.

 

I don't know. I'm just messed up over the world right now

Will and Jada? For real? LOL. So they've got a lavender marriage? With two lavender kids? I find that hard to believe in this time and their country. We aren't in the 50s.

 

But even if I'm wrong, whatever -- outing is a no-go for me, unless someone is actively working against our community. Conservative lawmakers? Out their sorry malicious asses. Other than that, we insist all the time that coming out is our own decision, an expression of our strength and trust in the future and our fellow human beings -- and then we'd turn around and steal that moment from someone, rob them of the choice to live their life as they see fit?

 

That brings me to my final point: with us or against us? What kind of self-defeating nonsense is this black-and-white thinking? Why should anyone be with us, then? (That is by no means obvious. Watch them leave us just for spite.) And even for those who are and would be: how is devouring our own the best way forward? If we truly are locked in a fight, don't we need our every soldier?

Truely lmao, they think they are being smooth and that homosexuality don't exist, i hope korea realise that kissing another dude or doing sexual skinship with him is considered as straight only in their country

 

I hope they don't. 

 

Seriously tho, if only they could skip the gay panic stage, that would be nice, thanks.

This whole thing reminds of the shitstorm surrounding spongebob back in the day. No matter how much you hate something, I cannot comprehend how freaking out so hysterically over such simple innocuous things doesn't give fully grown adults pause for even just a moment to step back and reevaluate what it is that they're doing with their short time on this planet

 

It's also amazing how seriously they can take themselves while behaving in a manner straight out of a comedy routine. They somehow fail to see how goddamn ridiculous and hilarious they look when gravely treating a kpop group or a cartoon about a sponge like an oncoming swarm of demons descending upon the earth

But it's about TEH HOMOSEXEULS!!1!

What do you guys think of Taemin (SHINee)?

 

I was playing the move video yesterday and my mum asked is he gay? I asked why she thought that, she said his mannerisms and movements. I personally believe he’s bisexual like myself (just a feeling not evidence based).

 

Ah, Taemin, forever the inscrutable one. I actually went full circle with him -- started with no opinion because he was unreadable; when I formed one, I thought he was straight. Then I thought he might be bi, after that I became convinced he was gay, and finally I went back to no opinion.

 

It's obvious, though, that whatever misgivings he had about his masculinity are gone. Move was amazing to watch.

honestly these types of talks make me very uncomfortable

These talks of sex is very inappropriate for younger users and people like me who lurk the thread and see this type of disturbing post accidently because there's no trigger warning ...

I see a lot of penis jokes here as well and I feel this thread would be suited to the 18+ section.

 

You say you lurk, fine, OK. How haven't you noticed that the thread does not -- cannot -- shy away from the truth of being gay/bi/pan, apart from all the fluff and shipping? It's always been that way. If you cannot handle that truth, maybe you simply shouldn't lurk.

Stop being heterophobic 

 

Yea, I caught that. Onew goes first, then Key. But do we have dates, plans? Damn, that's so unfair that the boys have to scramble.

 

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Damn, I've been out of the loop for years. Anyway, hello, thread. I have a wonder, if you'll indulge me: do we have any solid info regarding the new law on mandatory enlistment (which is unfair and stupid, but oh well)?

omg IMAGINE

 

Malachite Minho. 

 

 

SHINee Twitter Update

 

 

 

 

 

 

DayyYYYmmmn. I can see the new badges coming.

Happy birthday, Kim Jonghyun. You went where I wanted to go, too, times and again some years ago. I stayed alive, why couldn't you? I found my reasons; if only you could have waited a bit longer. I regretted sometimes, but not any more. I feel differently now -- because of me, but also because of you. Thank you for the years you lived. Thank you for the joy you brought, through you art, through your personality, through yourself. Thank you for being Kim Jonghyun. Happy birthday.

i am not a gay may so i can't say anything about fetishism but i too have mixed feelings. his voice is nice and the song is okay but i feel like it's being mega-hyped because he's the first. like, someone has to be the first and he's amazingly brave for doing so but i feel like as a result he's getting success that other artists who come out won't get right away simply because he is the first. if that makes sense.

 

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He could also have flopped and be ostracized on top of that precisely for that reason, so there.

It's also pretty ironic considering that Aziz literally wrote a book called "Modern Romance" and always insists that he's a feminist and then still acts like that

 

No man is a feminist when thinking with his dick.

Holland. Well shave my ass and call me an elf, it appears that our speculations about who's gonna be the first one are finished.

 

 

What a cute bottoming anthem!

 

Is there a topping anthem, too?

I'm not watching that, I've bawled enough for a grown-ass man. And the concerts? Jesus, no, that would break me. I don't think I have the strength to follow them.

all style no substance 

 

total disappointment 

 

Sometimes the style is the substance. That's one end of the axis of poetry. I just loved the style, and I liked what they did with the main protagonist.

 

9/24 is just a day after Kibum's birthday I hope its nothing serious.

 

 

 

Blade Runner 2049 was the best movie I've seen all year and I wasn't even a fan of the original.

 

It was really slow and light on plot, but an absolute visual orgy.

Well, I thought I would be able to listen to SHINee without weeping already, but I was wrong.