Almondandlime

Of course my internet browser decided to crash right as Shinee appeared. I missed all of dream girl. Oh well I'll watch the videos later I guess.

100% Jonghwan

He's so thin his ribs are sticking out.... He's good though.

Same. I visited AVEN and suddenly everything clicked and I could actually relate to people for once. But I still don't normally use the aro/ace label because I'm not sure it describes me completely or if I'm "sure enough" yet. I'm not a huge fan of labels but I feel like they could help those that are lesser known/accepted by society. I think romantic and sexual orientation can differ for some people at least, so those labels are not completely useless. I guess labels are what you make of them. If you find that they help you, use them, if not, then don't.

I wasn't sure how to answer a few of the questions (a lot of them are much more complicated than just true/false), so I took it twice and got X and 3. The whole quiz is not very well designed though, you pretty much have to be completely sure of your orientation beforehand for it to be accurate.

Isn't that just bisexual then? Or at least "homoflexible"...

My face :D

I compete against other people no matter what their gender is. If they're on a similar level to me, I'll compete with them. I'm not too serious about it though so I don't wish I could stop because a little competition is a really good motivator. 

I admire Pallala for sticking to her character so well. She has some serious persistence.

It's kind of interesting how he uses three different alphabet systems to write the same phrase in English.

I saw that one on tumblr. I stared at it for a good 15 minutes. It's seriously amazing. So pretty.

Not just you, the site has been acting up. One thing that really annoyed me is

Wasn't that the 21st?

I wish I was that flexible... wow.

There are entire threads based on religion too so it's definitely okay.

To be honest that's the first time I told anyone my actual feelings about my orientation, on the internet or otherwise. I've hinted about it to a couple of people but never actually outright said it. I also think it's the kind of thing that people will understand/accept better if you just explain your feelings about it rather than use labels. For example, saying "I'm not really interested in having sex/dating people" is much more acceptable than saying "I'm asexual/aromantic." The latter has an element of finality and different-ness that a lot of people really just can't accept, even though it's the same thing as the former.

Urrrr. I'm an avid lurker. I often forget that after months of stalking a particular thread I've never actually posted/introduced myself so I just randomly jump in a conversation and forget that no one knows who I am. As for where I fit... It's pretty complicated and I've confused myself to heck with it and I keep trying to stop thinking about it and let it work itself out but then I keep thinking about it so.... uh. If I have to put a label on it, it's either bi/pansexual or asexual, possibly even aromantic. Attraction is all a big ??????? to me and I really don't understand it, but I do know that at least I don't see males and females differently, though I am more comfortable with women because I'm a girl myself and most of the people I'm around are girls too. I do have certain preferences for looks, I do feel aesthetic/sensual attraction, but I don't really understand the connection between liking the way someone looks/loving someone and wanting to have sex with them? I also can't really understand the different between platonic and romantic attraction/love so that's why I think I possibly might be aromantic, but then again it could be just that I'm thinking too much about it so I'm just very unsure in general. I think I need to give myself a couple more years to figure things out and interact with more people and just give it some time to let everything fall in place. So I guess this has been my introduction. I'm probably not straight so I guess I fit in here to some extent.

Just curious are/were there any people on this thread who fit in the TQIA category?

I love the song, except for the annoying high pitched clicking noises (is that a triangle or something?) You can only really hear it with headphones but somehow it seriously irritates me. The rest of it is great though, it's really catchy.

If you're gonna go to Starbucks just for the bakery items you're better off just going somewhere else tbh.

Ironically, the label.

So I guess that means I'm either romantically interested in no one or literally all of my friends.  :._.:

Then what's the difference between liking someone as a close friend and liking someone romantically?   And where is the line between being nice and flirting?

Zhou Mi from Suju M.

I think I need the answer to this question too because I can't even tell when I like someone or not or what "liking" really is.  :._.: