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He's not even my bias but best body in EXO. Not even a competition.

If you're talking in regards to her debate with HanryuFan then I have nothing to say on that but if you're talking in regards to her assertion that Sehun isn't homosexual, then she hasn't brought up any more valid points than anyone else here in regards to his sexuality. People here, based on observation, have concluded that Sehun might be homosexually inclined. She has, based on observation, concluded that he isn't. The difference is that no one is passing their opinion about his sexuality here as if it's a fact and acknowledge that it's possible he isn't nor has anyone bashed anyone in thinking otherwise, unlike she. That's where the criticism comes from. Her persistence that her "evidence" is somehow more valid than rest here when in actuality there is no "evidence." It's all just speculation and her guess is as good as anyone elses.

You really take this Sekai thing to heart huh? Ok, well considering how invested you are in this friendship, I'll just let you carry on with your thoughts

Which just proved my point that I've been saying forever, that he seems equally close to both. But if you feel like making it like some kind of fanfic love triangle in which Sehun has to choose, you're more than welcome to

I think we all do Quite literally closer

It's not playing dumb, it's being realistic that he prob has loyalty to both. Because a person is capable of having more than one best friend which seems to be the case with Sehun. It seems you're not aware of that so I'm just letting you know. You're welcome

Prob to all his band mates. Sehun seems that type

And Tao

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All..... Episode 4 has 8 minutes of them fake crying to a movie. Epi 3 is funnier imo

If you're referring to the Regina thing, it wasn't you. It was me lol so no need to apologize. But if it makes you more comfortable to post there instead about them, then do so

I think he's just uncomfortable with skinship with people he's not close with. Not that I've seen every video of Sehun or anything but to my knowledge, he doesn't seem to get touchy with ppl much outside his members and even within the group, it's only with the ones he seem especially close to.

Lol sorry, it was bigger on tumblr.....I didn't check the size when I posted lol idk, Tao and Luhan are like Tom and Jerry, always at each other's throat

He's not actually kissing him, just yelling in his ear. It looks different from that angle

I'm not saying they don't deserve to be more popular, I just don't think it's necessarily unfair that they actually aren't because of the simple fact that they can't speak the language. I understand that it's hard to do so because they don't get to spend much time in China so I'm not expecting them to be fluent but they literally know nothing, like they can barely introduce themselves in Chinese. It's not all their fault as you pointed out that the motivation to learn it isn't quite there and SM is at fault also, I agree. And yes, members like Tao and Kris could be more helpful in giving more attention to the others bc they tend to get the majority of the limelight on these shows. But Korean members also have to take responsibility, they know they're a group meant to try to appease both the Korean and Chinese audiences and they knew that from the beginning. They could atleast learn some common phrases or try to practice saying a sentence or two but it always comes off as if they don't really try. Not saying they don't, just that's how it comes off and until they learn more, I think OT6 promotions are more appropriate action to take. If OT12 try to promote as they are now, China ain't gonna accept them outside of their already established fanbase. Point blank. It will basically be Chinaline carrying all the shows and most likely further distancing the popularity gap between them and the rest of the members. EXO-K is better off holding the fort in Korea imo.

Not really, since the K members know jack shit of Chinese and contribute pretty much nothing to their variety appearances in China with the exception of occasionally Suho. Chinaline know how to speak Korean so it's fair for them all to actively promote there bc they have actually learned the language necessary to communicate in Korea. K members have not done so with their Chinese, they can't even say simple phrases. How well do you think that's gonna go over with China when they've been trying to promote themselves as a mainland group since debut? It's bad enough Chen and Xiumin have a hard time with the language but atleast they can contribute a little bit. OT12 being popular in China ain't gonna happen imo, not with more than half the members basically being tag alongs on the shows.....that's just how it comes across. It's best to stick with OT6 bc that's the best shot they got at being relevant there.

The first one is cute as fuck

Exact same for me. I can understand if someone wasn't a fan and they didn't get any vibes from him but if you're a fan that actively follows them, I'd find it odd if he didn't ping you atleast a little bit. And I agree with the second part. I think it's the reason alot of non-fans pick him out as the gay one initially. He just looks like a typical twink lol

No it wasn't that one, it was this one from yesterday http://onehallyu.com/index.php?/topic/38995-plot-twist-regarding-the-war-in-sm-building/page-2&do=findComment&comment=2175980 I should have known better but it's kinda fun trying to break the SeKai illusion she's got going on. It's like her Kryptonite lol Yes, let's be friends Yea, I agree on the individual basis but I can't lie that the whole probability thing prob affects my thinking more than it should. But I try to keep an open mind on their sexuality since I know some people are way more observant and on the money on some things than I prob am. But I'm less open about the pairings being real. Alot of those are just a bit too much of a stretch for me to believe.

Yea, I understand that. That's why I said it's not impossible and it's based on the individual and I don't necessarily knock anyone for thinking that more than a member or two could be homosexually inclined. They could all be for all we know. I just think it's unlikely but I'm aware that I could be totally off.

Yea, I was referring to my comment earlier that people (in general) tend to make it seem like half the members from big groups like EXO and SJ are homosexually inclined and I didn't think that was probable. Sorry, I should have made that clear.

Oh it was you? I thought it was me when I made the horrible mistake of trying to explain to her in another thread how Sehun could have close but different bonds with both Kai and Tao bc apparently SeKai is the holy grail of all friendships and Sehun and Tao couldn't possibly share qualities that could tie them in a way different to other members, ya know, like.......their sexuality maybe. Nah, Tao is just interfering with the Almighty straight as an arrow SeKai and needs to buzz off back to Kris bc he's taking Sehun's precious time away from Kai and we can't be having that......the very lives of all EXO fans depend on it My bad guys. Oh for sure. Statistically, there is bound to be atleast one. But over half of them? Not likely I do think sexuality is a spectrum though and most people aren't strictly homosexual or heterosexual so it's possible there may be more open minded members but still the chances of most of them on acting those inclinations or those inclinations being very prevalent is still slim imo.

Do you have observable and tangible evidence that he's totally straight?

Just search Sehun's name in this thread and you'll get plenty. He's been discussed to death on here so you should have no problems.

Kai and DO could have public sex tomorrow and I still won't believe they're anything but friends. Like I would bet my house that there is nothing going on, it's as obviously platonic as Hunhan to me. Idg that ship or why some are adamant about it and I don't think I ever will. But hey anything could happen I guess. Maybe it's just me, but I think the likelihood of there being more members with bisexual or gay tendencies in a group (EXO) with prob two obvious gays already in it kinda seems small. I mean I know you have to look at each individual and it's not impossible but statistically, even in music industry, it's still unlikely. I can maybe see one other member but people point out like half the group and that's just not probable.