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I wish that you were right about this.Do you know who Milo Yianopolis is? He has a world tour with the word "faggot" in the headline. I don't find it offensive either.
And I say this from the point that Korean youth will accept a gay idol. I think the problem is to do with discrimination within the industry OR the kpop idol path isn't actually that attractive to gay people.
FYI you can be openly gay without having gay marriage.
The only major gay right that Koreans don't have that could prevent an idol coming out is the military discrimination.
Furthermore, antidiscrimination laws exist in Seoul where these idols work. I feel that there's more pressume on idols to remain in the closet due to overseas promotions where homophobia is a bigger problem, then in Korea itself where most young people would tolerate it and even support it. 90% of Koreans want antidiscrimination protections for gays.
But apparently you're not actually reading the other comments on this thread or we would be done explaining why there are gay idols it just isn't safe for them to come out.
About what I bolded in your post:
Do you understand why gay marriage matters? If gay people can't get legally married to their lover they have no legal rights to help make health care and any other legal decisions if something happens to that person.
Without being able to say you are legally married to them the hospital doesn't have to tell you their diagnosis or anything else. This is especially damning if your lover's family doesn't like you.
The HIPAA laws really suck when you have "no legal relationship" to the person you love if they are sick or dying.
Discrimination is found in every corner of life. Antidiscrimination laws only help you when you can find someone who is willing to help enforce and use those laws to protect you.
In societies like Korea there are a lot of people who don't think gay people have anything to offer society since they can't reproduce.
There is a law in Nebraska right now that is being discussed AGAIN that takes sexual orientation out of the protection of the law.
Meaning that if someone beats you up at school or something for being gay, it's not considered bullying or a hate crime. It's still assault, but "no one needs to get hung up on that little detail. They just need to stop being gay and no more problem. "
A person I considered a friend for a couple of years brought it up the other day at work and saw "no problem" with the idea that it could pass. But I am rethinking this "friendship " since he has known for 6 years that I am bisexual.
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Real life is driving me crazy.
But if our boys are giving us a comeback in April why is this thread so dead?
Seriously, I bet they are working like crazy in the practice room, but I miss them desperately.
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More infos about CXK US/UK Tour - seems like night club + live music venues

4.04 Harbour Event Centre in Vancouver
4.05 The Midway in San Francisco
4.06 Academy in Los Angeles
4.07 Kings Hall in New York
4.12 Brixton Electric in London

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And Kun + his studio weibo update


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Levi's chief marketing officer China about working with Xukun
He's so gorgeous and talented. Proud that he's always busy. And this is going to be
Pretty much off topic but... I gotta say this.
I know that suit he's wearing cost more than my car, but hell no even he can't make it attractive.
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Awesome. ^_^
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I can't imagine how or why anyone would leave a fandom that they love.
I haven't left SJ or Shinee despite what some people think. I will never forget how much I love them even now.I am focusing on other groups until I feel strong enough to listen to new music when someone I love is missing from each of these groups.
EXO is amazing and I adore each of them . Tao was my first bias in EXO and I still love him even though he's gone.
I'm back to following him even though he's in China. And that gives me hope that I am not leaving any of my other groups. ^_^
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I just love this thread so much. You guys will never know how much I adore each and every one of you. Huggles.
I'm always down for
sojuand chicken but I don't drink so I will always be happy to be your designated driver in spirit, no matter where you are!I would give anything to go with you guys, but that's not going to happen unless I get an actual novel finished and published. And probably not even then. I don't even have a car anymore.But I only came to talk about fun stuff! And Baekho is the most beautiful little island princess I have ever seen. I will probably spend the next three hours watching his coronation gif and throwing milk duds at my phone.
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don't worry, i don't think you would change anything anyway... it's like a battle between kids, they won't listen what people have to say unless they agree with them
Yep. That is why I didn't say anything. But I felt guilty thinking about it later, because when good people do nothing it emboldens the people who are being toxic just because they can.
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Yeah, happy birthday. Why are they all so gorgeous... Help. I'm in too many fandoms.
But with these guys, their songs are just too good to stop listening to. ^_^
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He's just way too cute and adorable! Help...
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Hello everyone. I have been listening to these guys since O sole Mi, but since Enough came out I just can't stop listening to it too!
I'm interested in the fandom, but I don't know anything about the boys yet, I just wanted to say hi.
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He's the most precious thing in the world to me.
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Nope. Nope. Nope... I need way more inspirationNuble's Dejavu performance in Hong Kong
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5qAj2AbDBa0&feature=youtu.be
Can Aron and Dongho pls button their shirts for the sake of my sanity?

And I think you know why.
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theyre yongkwon and jinkyu who were on boys24, the second image he put up (if you click on the post) is yongkwon and chani from the man blk
They are super adorable. Thanks!
I was on YouTube this morning and saw a video whose comment section degenerated into a war between Army and EXO-L trying to say that the other groups has more gay members than the other.
Like it was an insult for them to be gay. I ignored it at the time because i was at the doctor's office but now I'm annoyed at myself for not telling everyone to drop it.
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do you mean who are they?
Yes please. Who are they?
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Looool that was exactly what I was thinking
I was looking at those gifs of him being the human representative of uwu with those bunny ears and then NuC's sig slapped in the face. Hard to believe that they are the same person. His duality is no joke 
Have you guys seen the teaser for LOTJ? Lol Baekho has a mini afro
My thoughts exactly! Wtf. ^_^
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Omg guys...
I'm so whipped for glass-wearing-kang-dongho I mean look at the softness I'm... 

ngl my heart is beating fast right now!


uwu uwu uwuuuu:lovestruck:

Btw if you find my sanity tell it I don't need it anymore i've got everything here yup.


Ugh that vlive was more than my delicate stan heart could handle!
feels-baekho who you bye!really i just wanna put him in my pocket I mean look at that fluff awdxxxefredr...!

Your signature in the same post as the bottom picture...
Who let this adorable
little idiotbaby tiger out of the nursery? Seriously... fml right now. I just can't...-
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When the Vlive notif popped up, I shouted a very loud oh my gosh that my sister thought something bad happened hahahaha. She told me I should get used to OT5 moments now

Yep. We all should! Because my babies are back!
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-how do they have EXO member's number
-why would they called them non-stop. Suho is not the only one, Chanyeol, Baekhyun and Sehun..I bet all of'em receive the calls from the sasaengs
-why would they think it's the best 'Oppa notice me' way with makin numerous calls

when I thought EXO is an oldie group. Wouldnt have the obsessed fans anymore but they proved me wrong
Of course they aren't leaving. Sasaengs just get more obsessed.
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They went through so much just to get to PD101 season 2 that I really do believe they probably are closer than most of Kpop's other groups.
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Definitely. I need all the pics I can get. Stupid hosting services hate me. Idk, but everything disappears.True.
May the Mark stans unlurk and share their stash of photos.

So I just leave them here on the threads where they get posted.
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I just love this adorable little idiot. He makes me smile no matter what else is going on in my life.
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Gorgeous and adorable at the same time.
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I do love to be proven wrong! Sammy! Why is he so cute?








Which male idols do you think are gay?
in Celebrity News & Gossip
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Finally! Someone said it!
Heeprincess can do whatever he wants with his hair. Whatever makes him happy makes me happy.