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literally anything.......i'm a little tired of the straight-girl-who-gets-seduced-by-confident-and-cool-lesbian trope but that's like the extent of my reservations (i do hate a/b/o but i've also never seen that for femslash lol so not a huge concern). i luv scifi & world building, romcom, enemies to friends to lovers, university au, canonverse, etc etc i just read the description of the second one & i'm already into it.....thank u for my life

that fansite pic....... i deleted my aff a little while back rip.....gotta remake for the lesbians

guess we been wrong this whole time :/

kind of ot but ladies pls rec me that good femslash fic...i am relatively indiscriminate about fandoms/ships...it's so hard to find anything & i am a poor starved dyke

haven't been online the past few days but just got caught up & wrt xiumin: he was my first exo bias (and is still in the top 3) but i find him impossible to read for some reason. i feel that he's a very private person who sticks to a certain image carefully. he hasn't really done anything to make me think he isn't straight, but he hasn't really done anything to make be think he is, either. i don't personally feel that there's any attraction in his interactions with members, current or former—his and luhan's friendship was(/is? idk how much they keep in touch) undoubtedly one of the strongest and most genuine in the group, but i think that's all it was. he seems to me like the kind of guy who likes to keep his work and personal lives separate, and i think ppl often forget that being an idol is still a job. maybe he would take a page off suho's book and have a non/less-famous boyfriend? either way, i don't think i've seen any interest in his reactions to anyone which would make me lean in any direction anyway i love kings making their entire album gender neutral

why bother responding to the opinions of a straight girl who refers to her female friends as "me and my girlfriends" lol

this is amazing <3 thank you again

taengsic is the wound that will never heal also jungli

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it just keeps getting harder...it should be getting easier as time goes on but every day i see something else that sets me off and idk what to do anymore

since radaphe's thread reminded me of this lesbiandary (lesbian & legendary) video: the girl in the pink shirt is so into yubin. a true icon

thank you so much for this beautiful response <3 i am seeing a psychiatrist but she's mostly unhelpful. that's what always happens in my experience when ppl who go into the mental health field have never experienced a mental illness firsthand. there are only so few people i feel i can talk to and one of them has it worse than me, she's also a shawol and has attempted suicide several times in the past while i have only thought about it. everything feels like it's falling apart

i just woke up, has there been any news on key? i'm really worried about him

this is an amazing idea. thank you so much <3

it's been 9 hours since i woke up to a message from my friend about jonghyun...i've spent this entire day in a state of panic and i barely feel like i can breathe. it's always hard to hear about a suicide when i suffer from depression and suicidal thoughts myself, but this one felt even more personal. i don't know how i can get over it...every time i think i'm done crying, something sets me off again...i had stopped self-harming for a while and just relapsed a week ago and all i can think of is how nothing will ever be good enough to stay

is there anyone here i can dm? this is a really hard day

u said it better than i ever could

queen meng jia anticipate her cb 19/12 with ambiguously bi icon jackson wang

ot but that syd gif is the reason im alive rn

https://www.instagram.com/another_930615/ it's his most recent post, there's only been very rough translations of it so far but apparently he talks about how korea is very unforgiving to queer people & he identifies as aromantic asexual

not about lesbians but apparently a former male idol (toppdogg's hansol, who left the group & goes by minsung now) came out via instagram ;_______; i'm so proud of him, he's always been amazing hopefully this helps pave the way for more k-idols to feel comfortable w/ their sexualities

the new yubin badge is a crime against humanity

i dont follow twice too closely, what's the context of chaeyoung's comment?