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calling jimin a top is literally violence this fat ass? jungkook's unbridled passion? don't be delulu

but jungkook's possessive hand.... he's SUCH a seme

amber is really not gonna let 20gayteen end without doing all that's in her ability to let us know that she's one of us [eta] also, here's a link to watch daughters of club bilitis if anyone wants! i had never even heard of it before now lol

ot: call out post for miss gucci

ashley is the leader of ladies code! also: closed doors is a coming out song & we knew that

not a wendy fan but lmfao she's not even trying... how people still say she's straight

i just watched the mv on my phone at work and i'm literally getting teary eyed LMAO... i know it's dumb to get emotional over this but i've been having a really rough time lately and it's always the little things that get you. it makes me so happy to see them act out these romance movies as f/f stories, like i can actually relate to these famous tropes and films for once. idk man i'm probably going too deep but it really hit me fsr

35 user(s) are reading this topic twice's impact on this dead af thread LMAOOO anyway i'm getting ready for work so i can't watch yet, someone pls tell me if my gf jihyo has any gay scenes

thanks 4 letting me know! i hadn't seen that article, i feel more comfortable with the title lesbian jesus now lol. i had been under the impression that she was a bi girl w/ a preference for women since the early articles labelled her as bi, doesn't seen like that was by her consent though which is really frustrating but i'm glad she's able to speak out more about her own experiences & identity now that she has a stronger platform. guess kehlani is back 2 being bisexual jesus imo

i completely agree in that i hate the q slur and i hate when people describe me with it, especially since they never ask for consent—the only thing is that i was under the impression that hayley was bi? which is why i actually hate when ppl call her "lesbian jesus" since she's not a lesbian lolll but it's totally possible i'm wrong, i can't seem to find her addressing it in the past year or so but iirc when she first broke out she identified as bi. like just call her "bisexual jesus" imho, there's no reason to conflate lesbians and bi women when our experiences are so different? which is also why i'm apprehensive about the term wlw—which does have its uses & importance in creating solidarity of course! but i feel like a lot of the time it's used, people act like there's a Singular Women Loving Women Experience when lesbians & bi/pan women face completely different prejudices—lesbians get shit because we're not attracted to men, bi/pan women get shit because they're attracted to multiple genders. a lesbian who's in a relationship with another woman is not having the same experience as a bi/pan woman who's in a relationship with another woman anyway all this to say that people need to stop treating lesbian and bisexual like they're dirty words when qu*er is the one that's a literal slur LOL. i'm totally open to people identifying with the term—i call myself a dyke all the time, i love the term even though it also originated as a slur—but it's one thing to reclaim it yourself and another to impose it on other people, many of whom probably have had it directly used against them in the past & have negative associations with it because of that (myself included)

iu is a bi queen who wrote peach about sulli and i'm on mobile so i can't dig it up rn but hara and sulli are real close friends who posted an ig story kissing a yr or so ago?? and i've always thought sulli is bi but tbh that came off as more straight gal pal activity than anything which was too bad

today has been so hard and i dont know what to do anymore. every day i hate myself and regret that i'm able to be here when so many others arent. i wish i had someone who loved me and i wish i was able to be sufficient enough that i didnt rely on that, i wish that i could be comfortable with myself instead of constantly wishing i were someone else, i wish. i don't know. i've been smoking so much lately because i don't want to be sober but then i binge when i'm high and it triggers my ed so bad. there's nothing i have to look forward to anymore but i'm too scared to do anything to end it i loved jonghyun so much. i hope he's having a great birthday looking down on how much we love him. i'm not religious but i wish i were so i could think there was something for me beyond this, but it's easier to think about with someone else. i want him to know how important he is, now if he couldn't then. i can't believe it's been almost 4 months i'm sorry i'm not coherent right now eta 4 months lol my dumbass can't do basic math

thanks 4 the responses, think i'll reserve judgement for now lmao

how seriously do you guys take "bi lighting" in mvs? i've been trying to decide for a month now how much faith i should put in the bi flag in the daydream mv, and every time i make up my mind i immediately second guess myself lmao. like: janelle monae's make me feel mv is about bisexuality, and includes the colours of the bi flag—on the other hand, nct dream's go uses the same colours and has heavy m/m fanservice, but i personally feel like the lighting is more for general aesthetic purposes than Because it's the bi colours. so i was leaning towards coincidence for daydream, but on the other hand, it's not just lighting...it's literally the shape of a flag, and since hoseok himself had a part in the creative direction + the lyrics at the time are about "wanting something" & not being able to act on it... anyway hobi is one of the first male idols i ever stanned & still one of my few male ults but i've always flopped between whether i think he's straight or bi. i've posted about it here before, but the lyrics to boy meets evil have never made sense to me unless they're about feelings for another man. but all i have to really go off of is now two songs and his occasionally camp mannerisms, which don't say much when he's open about how he adopted that personality as part of his happy virus image for the camera

ot amber talk

nvm i'm too tired to discuss these things anymore

back after hiatus & now all the badges are updated :x or first is more my aesthetic but i like the new lizzy badge too much :(

hi gays i'm back, is there any tea since january that i may have missed?

perma ban me please

i've been so anxious lately and idk what to do...i'm at work right now and i can feel a panic attack coming but i need to get a renewal on my anxiety meds so i have nothing right now...i keep getting these invasive thoughts about what other people think of me and how i'm completely alone in the world and there's no hope left. i know i need to schedule an overdue appointment with my psychiatrist but she usually just makes things worse.. idk. i've been off antidepressants for a few months because my old ones conflicted with my sleeping medication but i think i need to start them back up, i'm just scared that they won't work since i have a bad history with ssris. but nothing else is working so what can i do

lmao that reminds me of this tweet: Click here to view the Tweet "conservative moonbyul" honey she's just gay

kind of ot?

just listening now but this is a bop & a half wth! got7 singles always deliver